Who's House?

It's almost Christmas. Report cards came out 3 weeks ago and good grades are not in sight. There is a list of things that is given to Santa Clause as a "what I want" list. Did I mention their room looks like a tornado ran in it and they have been told several times to clean up? Oh, and when they are asked to do something it takes them forever because its a inconvenience for them to put down the phone that we pay for. Now its time to go shopping and the list is checked twice. As a matter of fact some of us have to borrow money to finish paying for the gifts that they don't need nor deserve. Why do we allow a person who for one don't pay a single bill to dictate what they are going to do in our house and when? Better yet why are we going through so much just to give them more power when they won't even take the time to get the education they need nor clean up. We have got to do better as parents. As this is not helping our children it actually hurts them and when they get around people who don't cater to their needs they act out and don't know how to function. Its time for us to do better do our children don't get placed in this trap and they began to learn that life won't give them everything they want. You will have to earn some things. work hard for some things. and not have some things as well.,...... The Seeds You Plant will take you a long way.